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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I worry that you are not going to take in the advice here because it’s been delivered pretty harshly (yet unanimously).

Please don’t introduce your kids to a guy you just met. Seriously. I understand that you spent time alone after separating (although I imagine that the friends who thought you were “crazy” for doing so are not parents) but you need to look inward to understand why you feel a need to bring someone to your dad’s wedding. There seems to be a discomfort or disease with being alone, or at least a neediness that crops up when you’re connecting with someone you like. To be honest, even 3-6 months isn’t long enough to be dating someone before introducing your kids, necessarily.

And since you are struggling with boundaries, I feel the need to make you aware that your kids need to be safe and there are guys who will use you to get to them. They are vulnerable to abuse if that’s not on your radar. Keeping them safe and healthy (and that includes not introducing them to a resolving door of guys) must be your absolute priority.[/quote]

^Oops - *unease*, not disease. Typing too fast![/quote]

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