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[quote=Anonymous]Everytime this comes up on boards it is like, drama. I feel like the subtlety between, 'I will not promise to keep your confidence from someone with whom I don't share secrets' and 'I do not gossip with my husband about my friends' is lost. I am not telling my husband all about my friend's intimate details, but I would never ever agree to keep a secret from my spouse. I just don't believe in making deception agreed upon. If my husband asked me directly about something, I would tell him. If something came up that impacted him or impacted US, I would tell him (obviously very unlikely if this is some thing with friends). So people say its codependant but it isn't like I'm actually telling him anything. I just refuse to codify a culture of secrecy between us. [/quote]
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