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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP's question is "if you forgave infidelity, how did you do it?", not "Should I forgive infidelity?" I would assume they are past the point of needing to repeatedly hear the clichéd and unhelpful "Once a cheater, always a cheater." We all make mistakes, some very serious. Should it be assumed that we will 100% repeat all our mistakes?[/quote]

Most marriages survive infidelity. That stat includes those known affairs, let alone ones not known.

I suppose for me, I couldn't imagine uprooting my life over his mistake. Why do I lose half my assets, my social circle and my kids and introduce a step parent or parents just because he can't keep it in his pants? It's like cutting off my nose to spite my face [/quote]

Because you don't want to live a lie and don't want an std. I didn't lose my kids or my social circle and it was fair to lose half my assets. I have friends whose ex lives one street over. It's a monetary hassle but otherwise no big deal.[/quote]

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