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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you sound miserable, but I'm not sure why making your DH miserable (which, honestly, is what it seems like you're going for) would make you feel better? If you want DH to go to lunch with you sometimes, press for that with a reasonable ask (e.g., once every 2 weeks)... don't muddy the waters with leftovers (what do those have to do with wanting to have lunch with your DH other than you want him to be miserable too)?[/quote]

OP here. I am not trying to make him miserable. I just feel like I'm the one making all the sacrifices, and I hate it. I just want something to keep me hanging on, even if it's a stupid lunch out, because right now I don't have anything.[/quote]

Ignore that poster. You don’t sound like you’re trying to make your husband miserable. You do sound resentful that he is living his best life while you’re floundering and you know what? I’d have a hard time not being resentful about that too, especially if I told him I’d like to go lunch and he said he was busy.

Have you tried scheduling a lunch with him in advance? [/quote]

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