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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do not regret it. But it probably would have been easier logistically with kids to stay married and just have an affair until they were a little older. I offered that alternative to divorce. We never had sex but he still said no. [/quote]

It's an unpopular opinion but I agree that if you can pull off an affair in a low sex marriage it's a much better alternative than divorce.  Eventually, your hormones calm down and you can live happily ever after. Many couples that make it to old age together have undiscovered affairs. [/quote]

I consider myself really open minded, but that’s not then kind of long-term relationship I would ever want, one where you are life partners until you die, but you’ve kept a fundamental betrayal from that other person. That’s pretty gross actually. I would sooner have an open affair and try to maintain my marriage than do something like that. I’m not sure how someone even considers that a quality relationship.[/quote]

They are not considering it a quality relationship. They consider it to stay married for other reasons than the relationship itself. Like surviving a bad marriage for kids, finances, etc. the relationship is obviously not quality to begin with in these situations. Happily married people will never understand how bad a marriage has to be to consider this or divorce. [/quote]

Nah.  Some men do this for a midlife crisis and it’s nothing to do with the quality of the relationship or the wife.  It’s pretty common in 50-year marriages for a lapse, even the very happy marriages.

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