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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do not regret it. But it probably would have been easier logistically with kids to stay married and just have an affair until they were a little older. I offered that alternative to divorce. We never had sex but he still said no. [/quote]

It's an unpopular opinion but I agree that if you can pull off an affair in a low sex marriage it's a much better alternative than divorce.  Eventually, your hormones calm down and you can live happily ever after. Many couples that make it to old age together have undiscovered affairs. [/quote]

I completely agree - and wish I could read some of my friends this thread.  I am in my early 40s and have so, SO many female friends who are newly divorced or want to be divorced because their lives have gotten boring now that their kids are more independent and they (both people in the couple) have not taken the time and care to maintain intimacy.  The women feel unloved, bored, unappreciated, and they think there is some miraculous fun, sexy, single life out there.  In reality, there are a lot of messed up, gross men trolling for younger woman, a lot of lonely nights, and a lot of HARD work being a single mom.  Even when they feel like the original PP - that they do not regret it - they know they are exhausted and still unfulfilled and less financially stable now.  They also know it SUCKS for their kids.[/quote]

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