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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]LOL

You ever think its not about you? She's planning a wedding and the venue might be booked for every other week? Or she doesn't want to get married in hot, humid July? Or she knows you could deliver early or late?

Get over yourself. Its not like you would be attending at 9 months pregnant or two weeks postpartum anyway. So why schedule it around you?[/quote]

Np. I get this, but it's kind of weird to plan a wedding that you know your brother can't attend, without saying anything to him about it. Op said her husband and his sister are close. Wouldn't you feel obligated to approach your brother ahead of time so he's not surprised? I would.

Op, it's not about you, but it's certainly a strange way for her to say "you guys don't really matter."

Alas, I would totally suck it up: have husband decline the invitation with his regrets. But If she's upset about it, don't be a door mat. Let her know this is just unfortunate timing, but that if her brothers presence was important she shouldn't have planned the wedding at this time.

My guess is she doesn't Care.

If it's not clear, your husband should not abandon you right after the baby is born. [/quote]

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