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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do think an au pair might be a really good option for you, and that in the meantime pulling from savings to get more nanny coverage would be worth it.

All the husband issues aside, and I feel for you on the struggles you are experiencing in your relationship - I promise you that it really DOES get easier as the kids get to school age.  I didn’t have multiples but I had three high energy kids under age 5 with a frequently traveling husband, so I can kind of relate.  You will be able to catch a breath when you are working with school pick up and drops offs plus extracurriculars in comparison with this time in their lives.  It won’t be a breeze but it’s easier than toddlers plus K.[/quote]

Thank you! I am looking forward to the day when they all in school. It just sucks bc I feel like I’m not enjoying this time of their lives much bc of the high anxiety and stress that I’m constantly under. [/quote]

PP with the asthmatic twins again. My NT son, now an adult and successfully launched, told me recently that he appreciated that we seemed to handle all the ups and downs of his childhood “effortlessly”. I was so surprised because I thought we had fallen short in many ways and it was often really tough. What is important is that you provide stability and love to your children, not a perfect life. [/quote]

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