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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So your daughter excluded the other girl from her party because she talked about poop and farts, and yet she then attended her birthday party?? Wasn't she worried about excessive poop and fart talk there, or is it ok to hang with someone who talks like that if it's someone else's party? Ay![/quote]

My daughter had five other people she rather would have at her party than someone who talks about poop and farts all the time, yes.

As for her reasoning about going to the other girl's party, who knows how a 7 yo's mind works. It was a different atmosphere, maybe she didn't think it would be such a big deal at Chuck E. Cheese or something. In her head, excessive potty talk would have been out of place at her own gathering. 
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Bullshit - you already said you'd increase that by one for the other birthday girl.  This is not a matter of "there were limited slots, and there are 5 other people she'd rather have."  It is "I don't want HERr at MY party, but I'm happy to attend hers."

Yes, who knows what goes on in the mind of a 7 yo.  That's why her freakin' parent need to step in and make sure that she is not intentionally ir inadvertently hurtful to other kids.  I do agree that the lion's share of the fault here does not lie with yoru daughter - it lies with you.  This is not the kind of outcome a responsible parent permits, and not the kind of lesson a responsible parent teaches to her kid.  You're settign her up to be as clueless and mean as . . . well, as you.  [/quote]

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