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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom passed away a few years ago. Seeing how the DH spoke to the mom made me especially sad. If my mom was still around I know my DH would be kind to her, even though she could be a lot! OP, you deserve better. [/quote] OP here. It does make me very sad. I wish DH could accept my mom's apology and be a little nicer and forgiving. [b] He says maybe I should find someone else who is willing to put up with being controlled by my parents. [/b] I feel like it is possible to set boundaries, accept apologies when they are broken, and be kind.[/quote] In the encounter you posted, your mother was minimally at fault, if at all. Your husband was controlling, and a jerk. And, with the bolded comment above, he is gaslighting you. I would take him up on his suggestion. - a husband (and not one who typically joins the "divorce him" chorus - but his behavior is well on its way to being abusive)[/quote]
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