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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom passed away a few years ago. Seeing how the DH spoke to the mom made me especially sad. If my mom was still around I know my DH would be kind to her, even though she could be a lot!

OP, you deserve better. [/quote]

OP here.  It does make me very sad.  I wish DH could accept my mom's apology and be a little nicer and forgiving.  He says maybe I should find someone else who is willing to put up with being controlled by my parents.  I feel like it is possible to set boundaries, accept apologies when they are broken, and be kind.[/quote]

OP, is your DH kind of mean in other situations? What about the dynamics between just the two of you?

I’m thinking of you…[/quote]

OP here. He can be mean to me during arguments and say things he later apologizes for. He said he needs to work on that but that’s not the main issue to resolve, ie, I need to not start arguments related to my parents and be better at setting boundaries/not taking their side all the time. I hear him but think we both have things we can do better. [/quote]

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