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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kid is miserable (7th grade) and I'm at a loss for what to do.  She says she has no friends.  I know that she is friendly with a ton of girls in her class and they are nice girls and even dd doesn't say they are mean to her.  She says that when she sits with them, they don't 'include' her... they talk about what they did together last weekend, etc. that she can't participate in the conversation about.

I'm considering reaching out to those girls' parents (whom I know from ES) to see if they could somehow get her included in weekend invites but haven't yet because I think it could backfire (what will those parents actually tell their kids?)

I don't know if I have tangible advice for OP, except [b]to try to make sure your kid is solidly in a friendship group before going to MS.[/b]  But that's easier said than done-- by MS it is kind of the kids' turn to navigate these things and as much as we try, we are more spectators than anything else. [/quote]

I’m sorry your daughter is struggling—I’ve been there. But I don’t think the bolder will necessarily help much. The friend groups always seem to reshuffle a bit in MS. It’s like groups from different schools coming together and a new pecking order is established. I think encouraging your kids to be open to new people, new groups and not to fixate on their elementary friends or whoever the “in” group is will serve them well.[/quote]

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