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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you people get away with 300 ish a month in CS?

I'm paying 2500.   2 kids, and I make 140 ish, she makes 60 or so.  And she gets use and posession of the house for 3 years.  
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My ex makes 180k. I made 103k at the time of divorce. My ex is an attorney who made me go back to work before agreeing to amicably divorce. He would have burned through money and I would have gotten less than I did in the divorce if I insisted on divorce during the 18 months I was not working.

50/50 custody. He got the house. I agreed to let him take it. I could have tried to keep it with family help but it was not worth a nasty postdivorce situation. The child support would be $300 if we went though the court. We did not. I am glad we did not because he is contributing to more than that now and otherwise, he would only give me $300 because that is the kind of person he is...he wants control. Next year I will make what he makes and then I would get $0 anyway so not worth putting a formal CS court order in force at this point.[/quote]

No one can make you go back to work.  You choose to.  You could have said no.  Why did op not get it last year at the time of the divorce.  [/quote]

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