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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just re-read this classic dating book. It's basically about not being a doormat. If a guy is giving you hot and cold, don't say anything- just walk away.

Do you agree that men secretly love b's?[/quote]

We love women who have sex with us.[/quote]

Unless she’s acting clingy and like she’ll do whatever she has to to get you to marry her. [/quote]
+1.  This is why you can’t listen to men on this: they don’t really know what they want until it’s right in front of their face. They do not like clingy and desperate no matter what they say.[/quote]

Who said he liked clingy and desperate?[/quote]

He said he loved "women who have sex with us." That's a pretty large category, but men don't realize that. It's like women who will have sex with them but aren't ideal in other ways -- aren't their physical type, have an off-putting personality, or who will accept any kind of treatment because they are desperate -- don't exist. So they think it's all about sex. [/quote]
Exactly. And younger/less experienced women sometimes hear “we just want women who have sex with us!” and come to the conclusion that all she needs to do to be loved and committed to is have sex (have no boundaries, not stand up for her own emotional needs, etc.) just to keep a man happy. Which is emphatically not the case.[/quote]

Ya know, if you push people away by being high maintenance, people will go away.[/quote]

NP. If a guy thinks I'm being high maintenance when I stand up for my emotional needs and don't let him violate my boundaries, that's actually really great because it's a clear signal that I don't want him in my life. [/quote]

+1. Exactly!  That’s just being fair and reasonable, not high maintenance![/quote]

Who claimed he wants to “violate boundaries”? Why are you all making up weird stuff?[/quote]
Do you think people who violate boundaries go around saying “YES I WANT TO VIOLATE BOUNDARIES AND TAKE YOU FOR GRANTED OK NOW LETS HAVE SEX”?

Obviously it happens whether unintentional or not. But a B in this context will not permit it to happen to her.[/quote]

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