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Reply to "I have a real life “The Notebook” situation on my hands and I have no clue who to choose. "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just because you say, "no" to one, doesn't mean you have to marry the other "Wants to marry me" is a big red flag --- you are being passive. Very passive. Like, "this is happening to me" ... rather than YOU being empowered. In your own life. How about you stay away from #1 and not marry #2. And keep your eyes open for a better, yet unknown, #3. [/quote] This. OP, you don't love #2 enough to marry him. Let him go find someone who loves him. If he's so nice, don't waste his time. And don't go back to the hot mess. Just move on and find someone else. [/quote] I don’t think it’s fair to compare three years to a new relationship with only a year under your belt. [/quote]
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