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Reply to "Supported DH for 10 years and want to become a SAHM now"
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[quote=Anonymous]What strikes me odd is that her parents have a say in this. My husband and I make the decision in our homes, not our parents. We may ask for advice from time to time on certain things, but we make the decisions in our home. If your SIL and her husband are both on the same page with her being a SAHM, then she should go for it. It’s not up to anyone but her and her husband. They need to figure out together what will work best for them without outside input. My situation is a little different because my husband was long out of school and out earns me, but I wanted to work PT when I had my first. We talked about it and came up with a schedule that would work best for us. My MIL watched our son on the days I worked. She never once had an opinion about what we should do other than telling me she thought it was great that I had so much time with my son. She was jealous of women who could do it both because she never had that opportunity as a SAHM. Even if she may have had her opinion, she never voiced it, because that decision was between my husband and me. [/quote]
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