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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How much planning does your husband do? I found that if I nodded and made non-committal noises and said, “Sure, just let me know when you want to see your mom so I can take time off work,” he never got around to it - and she was within driving distance. I was absolutely miserable turning myself inside out to arrange visit after visit. Once I stopped helping, it was much better. [/quote] This. If your husband is going to bend to whatever his parents want or expect then make it clear the planning is on him. And you’ll join when you can. [/quote]
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