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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are entire forums and subreddits devoted to guys approaching women on Tinder and trying hard to initiate conversations where the women barely respond. That's because guys try hard to initiate conversations with women they think are hot, and women who are hot don't feel the need to respond. The reason the guys are not responding to you is because they do not think you're hot. Sorry but that's just a fact[/quote];

Well your logic is flawed, at least on Bumble. Women have to comment first, and only when a guy has matched with you. So presumably, he already thinks you're hot based on your profile alone, before any conversation happens.[/quote]

You know guys just spam right swipes. The first comment can be just a "hey" and nothing else. Then women expect men to put on their clown costumes and entertain/win over the woman. This is fine in the olden model of women waiting a la Goldilocks while suitors parade but in today's world of sexual parity, it does not work. Women who are serious about dating must put in equal, if not more, effort. Especially if they are competing for higher quality man or trying to date up. Most guys, including average guys, will be ignored.[/quote]

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