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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can’t talk or reason to someone in a midlife crisis.  It’s like they have had an alien take over their body.  It’s so weird and a helpless feeling to watch.  For us, I don’t think we would have the very happy marriage and intimacy we now have if it didn’t play out.  Now he’s been there done that.  The grass wasn’t greener, it was scorched and brown.  It put how wonderful he had it into perspective and forced him to confront self-sabotaging behavior.

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I (woman) am in the throes of a midlife crisis. Currently seeing a therapist and couples therapist. It doesn’t feel like an alien… it feels more like being fed up with all the shit I put up with for years and I want to burn it all down…[/quote]

What have you put up with? Like unequal work in the house?[/quote]

I am PP… I know I’ll be judged here but it’s not super dramatic, not dealing with addiction or mental illness. Kind of just deep resentment of DH from things that never got set right earlier in the marriage, carrying the emotional labor load in our family this whole time, then traumas and things I’m grieving personally over the past couple years (in addition to pandemic stress). I’m burnt out and no one can help me and DH doesn’t have the emotional capacity to support me and I’m just putting myself for the first time… perhaps it looks like I’m an alien but this is what it feels like to me on the inside.[/quote]

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