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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you were really into this guy (and you should know by 3 months if you're into him) then the first, flirty request wouldn't have repulsed you into demanding an explanation of where he gets off dictating your clothing, and what about in 10 years when you have a bad hair day, and why should imaginary future you have to dress for him?

He was testing the waters to see if you guys could have phone sex or something.  You were outraged, which means that you have no intention of having any kind of sex with him.  The follow-on conversation was extremely weird *from both directions*, but the underlying lesson is that you don't want to date this guy.  So don't.[/quote]

You’re speaking pretty hyperbolically- no where did OP say she was repulsed or outraged. In fact, she said she even did put on something sexy. His approach wasn’t flirty at all. It was demanding, which for someone he hasn’t slept with yet is over the top. He could’ve easily said, “you know I haven’t seen you in a while…it would be nice ti see you on FaceTime wearing something sexy”. No, instead he went straight for “I request” oh and if in the future you don’t do it I’ll be upset. At worst he isn’t smooth, awkward, and is sensitive.[/quote]

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