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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think this is a GIANT SURE RED FLAG that he is an abusive ahole or anything. But I do think its a very large signal that you are sexually incompatible and you should break up now. You are not into the same freaky stuff he is into, no judgement, just facts. You'll both be happier apart.[/quote]

Agree.  My now husband of 25 years would say kinky things when we were first dating—like “don’t wear any panties under your skirt”.  I’m still laughing about the cone over “only wearing lingerie under trench coat”. I think I changed right before he got to his condo door because I didn’t want to drive like that in case of an accident  :lol: .  We were like rabbits.  I was 26 when we first started dating and I was a virgin until I was 20 :).  He’s the only guy I ever let take a nudie photo.

Today it was all about my hot pink yoga pants.  He still makes “requests” 25 years later.  I have to really trust and feel comfortable to be that free.  Spouse was the only one I ever was that wild with.  He’s very high drive.

I just think you two are just not compatible.  He might be making “the request” in a jokey, sexy way.[/quote]

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