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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At the risk of alienating the people who tell couples to communicate, this guy communicated too much of the wrong stuff. Get out! [/quote]

PP here, he might be bad at saying "I wish we were more intimate cause I like you a lot" and that message came out weirdly garbled. Not saying he's a total freak, but he's at least got communication problems.[/quote]

Then how do you explain him saying if his partner doesn’t feel well and declines his request of putting on something sexy he’ll feel slighted and question things? That doesn’t seem like someone who word vomited. He seemed pretty clear and direct. [/quote]

+1 he definitely explained what he was feeling and why.[/quote]

He didn't say 'doesn't feel well'.  He said 'doesn't feel like it'.  Those aren't the same things.  He said if his partner refuses a small request like putting on sexy clothes for sexy time, and the reason was 'doesn't feel like it' or 'doesn't think they look good that day' he'd feel slighted.  Because 'i don't feel WELL' would be a different issue; there wouldn't be any sexy times.  Putting on sexy clothes is a small ask of a partner who is willing to wear them, and he'd feel slighted.  Then he tried to be jokey about what ELSE wouldn't you do and all the pearl clutchers went crazy.  [/quote]

Seems he is saying how he feels and what he wants is more important than what his partner feels or wants. And this is about her body and what she feels comfortable doing (whether she feels ill or just not in the mood or whatever). Red flag. [/quote]

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