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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't believe this totally lopsided, DH never got a dime, woe is me story. Sorry.  Another troll.[/quote]

DH has a different mom and grew up LMC. Siblings grew up entirely different situation. His dad never even divorced the mom until he remarried so he wouldn’t be on the line for child support. Siblings grew up UC in multi million dollar mansion and prep school. He grew up in dicey rentals in another state but got a full ride to college and took out a loan for incidentals. His dad is loving but he certainly got the short end of the stick. [/quote]
You should have said this at the beginning. It’s clear why you’re getting different treatment. It won’t change. The question is whether your husband will.[/quote]
So the dad married a woman with money and she doesn’t want to spend the money ?”(gifts, travel, college, etc) on your DH because he is a stepson?
If that’s the case, then that explains things. If your husband wants to maintain relationship with his dad maybe he can travel solo to them (at least sometimes) or his dad could come visit you all. But ultimately, it’s about your husband and what he wants and what agreement you can come to together. You can’t cut off visits without his consent- or at least, you cannot cut off his visits (or the kids, if he chooses to take them).[/quote]

No FIL has always been wealthy. SMIL was a secretary when they met who had no money. That's not the case at all. He's always been wealthy and when he was married to MIL they were rich as well but when they divorced she was cut off. [/quote]

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