Reply to Unhealed Betrayed Wives

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Unhealed Betrayed Wives"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would say some people are going through the process you went through to heal, they just aren't there yet.  They may be in the anger stage and that is completely normal.

Its nice to have compassion in life and realise that not everyone else is having a great day like you are.  Its ok if they are sad, hurt or angry.  Its probably still raw for them.

Just because you are over and done with it doesn't mean everyone else is.  Imagine you told a friend you were getting a divorce because he cheated and they simply told you to get over it.  I imagine its healthier to go through that rage stage, no point keeping it held inside.[/quote]

ITA but after a while it's so unhealthy. My MIL is still not over it over 10 years later and frankly it is getting annoying for everyone, including her adult kids. [/quote]

What you don’t understand about loss that destroys your life and life dream is that is does not ever resolve. It compounds over time. All the milestones all the would have beens the whole unfulfilled life runs alongside your actual lived life, mocking you, forever. To get over or past it you have to literally change who you are, lie to yourself about what you believed and wanted, adjust your values to your reality instead of the reverse; while all around you are people still living your dream. That’s why.[/quote]

Currently in it (and no, I haven't started any of the recent threads), and this really sums it up well. I think it's different when kids aren't involved. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics