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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are a lot, a lot, of long marriages that have gone through it and nobody outside the marriage or even their kids know.  Some of those happy marriages you envy, the loving couples you see- have been rocked by it at one point. You would be absolutely shocked.[/quote]

Yep, this exactly. I know three couples where there was cheating involved and all are still married. I know no one who divorced from cheating but I am sure it happens.[/quote]

What kind of cheating are we talking about here? ONS, flings or long term affairs?[/quote]

Not PP but I know if very long affairs (years). [/quote]

Very long affairs where the cheater(s) stayed married?[/quote]

Yes. I know of two. Yes, they were caught. Yes, the stayed married. Yes, the affair did not stop. [/quote]

Man broke it off, [b]rather brutally[/b].  He’s still married.  She’s not.  She had the feels.  He did not.

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Is that what DH told you?[/quote]

No.  She did.  She’s a friend.  He said some really horrible things.[/quote]

Like what? It can’t be worse than things she has already said to herself if they broke up.[/quote]

About her looks, about her worth, about her personality, she’s a whore, how much better his wife was in every way, how much he regretted ever meeting her, she’s a loser, a psycho, etc.  It was pretty much was made clear it was finito.  Yes- I know she felt that way before having the affair.  Low self-esteem.  She had to go back to the marriage like nothing happened even at a lower point then before.  She thought they would run off together.

I had a hard time not saying “I told you so.”  I never approved of her infidelities and had put a lot of distance between us because I don’t approve of cheating.[/quote]

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