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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with you, OP.  I watched my dad do something similar and it really messed me up for years to see everyone just phase my mother out.  Does your brother have a daughter?

Also, I think his girlfriend is disgusting for wanting to come at all.  A woman who could have an affair with a married man and then even WANT to bulldoze her way into one of his family's holidays, where she knows she is not wanted or respected and she knows she has caused his children such pain is a horrible person.

So basically, it could come down to choosing between making nice with your brother for the sake of "the family" and potentially messing up his kids more (especially a daughter!), or ostracizing your own brother and maybe losing him too.

Not a good choice.

But I would have had much healthier relationships in my 20s if someone had stood up to my dad and said what he did was not OK back in my impressionable years.  It was horrifying to see everyone in my extended family embrace his mistress and accept her as if my mom never existed.[/quote]

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