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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you treating the GF that way, but not your brother?  They were equal partners in the end of your brother's marriage.  It seems misogynistic to hold the whole thing against the female in the relationship.  [/quote]

Exactly this. Unless you are prepared to cut your brother out of your life, you had better start acting like a mature adult. I can understand your stance while they were still legally married, but that is over. He has moved on with his life. If you want to be in his life and for him to be in your life, you need to meet and be cordial to the person he chooses to share his life with.

Grow up.

-Happily married for 10 years and have never cheated, so don't bother accusing me of being a "mistress"[/quote]

I’m also happily married and I think OP is being a jerk.

If you feel so strongly about cheating then you need to hold your brother to the same standard. While his girlfriend was complicit in his cheating, he was ultimately more in the wrong because he’s the one who betrayed his wife and kids. It sounds like your family is hoping abd waiting for this relationship to fizzle out. Now you’re all getting impatient that it’s still going strong. Your brother already blew up his life for this woman. He gave up half his wealth, his time with his children, he lost a lot of respect. It’s very unlikely that after going through all of that, he’s going to decide that not getting to spend Christmas with his mom and sister is the line in the sand that’s going to make him break up with her.

You need to get over it. Your brother is divorced. He has a girlfriend. You don’t have to be her best friend but you do have to be polite.

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