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[quote=Anonymous]Whoa. Trouble has been brewing for a while in your marriage, and you are anxious because this trip will make you look it in the eye.

Stop your habit of caving or avoiding conflict. Tell him that you have decided to substitute the work trip for the one that is planned because as it approached, you realized that you guys will get more out of your time together if you work on your relationship. If he acts surprised, you can give the example of him not giving your the gift you had asked for: of planning the trip.

Both of you just keep falling into your old ways, which is common but a really great reason to seek counsel from an objective professional.

If you work on your relationship (feelings and  communication patterns), the sex will likely improve organically. But you have to have courage to tell him that all is not well, and going away now (before you do some work on your relationship) is not a good idea.

Stop brushing your problems under the rug (and using your child as an excuse). Deal with the current state of your relationship, and then a vacation with your husband will be an appealing prospect. [/quote]

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