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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] The ones who remarry IMMEDIATELY amaze me. I have an AP, we are planning a life together, and we are going to great lengths to cover our tracks. Yes it's definitely selfish, but it's also better for the kids' wellbeing to not have that extra bitterness infect their lives. These people who jump into a new marriage with no shame fascinate me. Do they think others will forget with time? Do they not realize they'll wear a scarlet letter for life? Do they realize it but don't care??[/quote]

Wow you lack self-awareness.  Do you think you are somehow better than the cheaters who rush into marriage?  Also, let’s be real here - your  concern is not that it’s better for your kids, it’s all about what’s best for you.  The rest of your post and concern about others forgetting makes that abundantly clear. Your real motivator is you don’t want other people to know because you know what you are doing is sh!tty and you don’t want other people to look at you differently.  That would force you to have to deal with your cognitive dissonance and you don’t want to have to self-reflect like that.  What’s really fascinating is that you deign to be appalled by other cheaters while somehow not realizing you are worse.[/quote]

I mean, everything I wrote is consistent.  Correct I don't want people to know.  But also correct it's better for the kids' psyches that they don't know.  And also correct that there are levels of audacity.  So yes I do think I'm better and smarter than someone who remarries instantly.  You're the one with cognitive dissonance.  You can't process that a cheater can make wise decisions.[/quote]

Lol. Narcissists are entertaining as all heck![/quote]

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