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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to get your sex life going.  He has said he needs to reconnect with you.  Men don't feel connected without sex.  Someone has to make the first move.  Sounds like your marriage is teetering on disaster.  What about sex before you leave to take the awkwardness away?

I agree your husband sounds unthoughtful, he should be a man and take initaitive[/quote]
Here is someone who gets it, thank you for posting this.  As a man, I can see where he's coming from and if your dead sex life and constant rebuking of his advances has him trying to find a way to reignite that spark.  He should take more initiative, but I can tell you his motivation factor feels low because it seems like you've checked out physically and now emotionally.

You have two option, try to reconnect somehow and see if you're still in this marriage- or get out and let him find someone who would love to go on trips with him. [/quote]

Fixed the ending....

You have two option, try to reconnect somehow and see if you're still in this marriage- or get out and  find someone who is not a child, who can plan a trip for your anniversary and you would love to go on trips with.[/quote]

Except it's wrong.  He should have taken more initiative...sure.  But being in a sexless marriage with no connection to his wife, where is the motivation?  She's checked out, stop stringing the poor guy along and let him go be with someone who wants to be with him.[/quote]

Which came first the chicken or the egg. Most likely the man child came first. Who wants sex with a man child? It's gross and unattractive. [/quote]

+1[/quote]

+1000 
No attraction to and thus no sex with the ManChild. [/quote]

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