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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How does her sleeping with anyone before you were in a relationship with her matter?[/quote]

It's his best friend I get it.[/quote]

+1 and OP even says it's not so much that it happened, but that she chose to keep it from him for more than a year. I'm a woman and I wouldn't like it either.[/quote]
I totally agree, and the fact that she’s acting like he did something wrong by needing time to cool off is a big red flag to me. She should be acting like she’s ecstatic he’s even considering staying with her, not twisting it around and acting like she’s the one who’s been hurt and deceived. It’s hard but I think ending this is good for OP. I’m sorry this happened to OP. Hugs and move on to find a better girl. [/quote]

Totally disagree. She may have some issues but this took place before they were even together, and he made the comment, not her.At what point was she supposed to feel secure enough to tell him something that would be a potential dealbreaker for him -- and which is, I might add, an irrational and unreasonable dealbreaker? No, she didn't tell you herself which would have been better. But, her response was honest and truthful. OP should have accepted her remorse. She probably moved out out of shame, as she like him seems somewhat immature. You need to apologize for your part OP, and decide if you want to continue, but you both may be too immature for each other.[/quote]

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