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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not PP, but I’d be surprised if the other children were shaken to their core by an outburst in class. Do the students need to read their victim impact statements in front of this girl? It’s such complete overkill.[/quote]

These comments are so weird. Do people need to be “shaken to their core” to deserve an apology? Is an apology the same as “victim impact statements”?

I normally really appreciate this forum specifically but some of these responses are so dismissive and rude. I am the PP who posted earlier about how one reason I’m okay with this is that we do t know how many kids with IEPs are in this class, and there may be kids with anxiety or other issues who could have been really upset by what happened, necessitating a conversation and apology. I don’t get why everyone is assuming that the only person who matters is OP’s DD. I think she matters and deserves to be treated within the specifications of her IEP (which I don’t know). But I also don’t think the other kids are just a faceless audience here. They are kids! And young. Of course this could be upsetting. Sheesh.[/quote]

I’m the PP you quoted and that’s a fair point. It was more in response to the idea that a) an apology the next day is an appropriate consequence for anyone, and b) anything less is letting the kid with a disability off the hook somehow.

I was using some hyperbole, because IME kids move on pretty quickly and this felt a lot more like an adult who needed to prove a point. But you’re right, context is everything.[/quote]

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