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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I suggest you and your fiance meet with both a financial advisor and a pre-marital counselor. It's good that you won't be legally married. A financial advisor can help your fiance get his affairs in order. You say you're a low earner and he makes 4x what you do. Even if you only make 25k a year, that means he makes at least 100k a year. That's sufficient income to have a better financial picture than he does. A financial advisor can advise you both what you should be saving for the future and help him (and you) craft a budget to include long-term savings. Once you have "paid yourselves" you can look at whether he has any discretionary funds left to give to his parents. You should also meet with a marriage counselor, to help you both get on the same page with respect to family boundaries. You need to find a place where you are both reasonably content. Otherwise, resentment will fester and you'll end up breaking up.[/quote]
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