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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]No!  Absolutely do not marry.  A man like this will RUIN your finances very very quickly and you might not even know until it's too late.  Do you even know the full extent of his problems?  I would make him show you a credit report.[/b]

[b]You seem to be in denial. [/b]The problem is not his parents.  The problem is him!  And if he doesn't have enough retirement savings he's not going to get there between now and when he's too old to work.  He might be thinking he can work forever, but is that what you want?  And often times health or layoffs force people out of the workforce when they still really need the money.  If he can't fund his own retirement, and he's not going to get anything from his parents, who's going to fund his retirement?  YOU.[/quote]

OP, at your age, with kids, you can't afford the financial mistake that is marrying this man. Live together. But, think about the future and what it will look like financially. I would have grave concerns even continuing the relationship. He is going to expect YOU to support HIM. Stevie Wonder could see it. [/quote]

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