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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, I'm not insecure so if a loved one raised a concern, I'd listen to it. Just like when I say, "girl, you need to work on that so that back pain doesn't get worse!", they...also listen? I don't know what kind of relationships you have with other women, but yeesh you all sound insecure and toxic if you have to dance around subjects so carefully. OP, I think this thread is full of a lot of defensive women who can't help but make things about themselves. Your feelings are how you feel, and you're not alone in feeling them, regardless of what the gaslighters on this thread would have you believe. And no you don't need to lose weight JUST BECAUSE you feel that way. If you need to lose weight to be healthy, then focus on that. But know that different people are built differently and it's okay to not all be the same size. Goodness gracious. [/quote]

You posted something super judgmental and condescending about the thin women in your life (calling them skinny-fat and unhealthy and predicting they would pay for it later) all while acknowledging you feel envious of them. Numerous posters have told you so, and not one of them has mentioned themselves or their own experience. They are just telling you that your comments are obnoxious and you need to MYOB.

This entire conversation is about you, your jealousy, your feelings about your body, your attitude towards other women’s bodies. The person being insecure here is you. Maybe you could stop dancing around that and admit you are judging others to make yourself feel better, that you are the one being defensive, and that your attitude is not particularly helpful.[/quote]

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