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Reply to "Never get second or third date. Why am I so easy to pass over?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]One theory I have is that maybe I'm "trying too hard" playing up the parts about myself I think are interesting. I like to [b]talk about the different travel experiences and adventures I've had, the more unusual experiences and accomplishments[/b] - not in a braggadocious way, but in a "let me tell you this interesting story" kind of way, as opposed to the more mundane topics like job, hometown, college major, or TV shows. Could this be a turnoff? That I'm trying too hard to not be "basic"? [/quote] Hey look, I've found the problem. You're bragging about how great you are, and then talking about how you love traveling. So what they hear is "I think I'm awesome, so you should think I'm worth you taking me on fancy trips." I'm sure you'll say that's not how you mean it, but that's how it's coming across. [/quote]
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