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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't make a big deal out of it.  Invite her, don't press the issue, just tell her you hope she'll come.  Give her the space to back down on her own.  Don't make drama with other family members.  Don't tell your fiancee everything your mom says.  Don't stir the fire, just let it die down.  If she doesn't come, she doesn't come, there's not a lot you can do.  But maybe she'll relent if you leave the door open, but also don't back down.  You can tell her that if she has real concerns and can express them respectfully, you'll listen, but that you're not going to listen to her just trash your fiancee, and that you plan to marry her whether or not your mom attends the wedding -- although you hope she'll come.  [/quote]

Yes. You will need to be the bigger person here, the most mature and the most psychologically stable. I need to do this with my mother, and let me tell you, the first few years were difficult. It permanently changed our relationship and it felt so wrong to “be the parent”!!!

But this how it is, OP. [/quote]

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