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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, he sounds like a man-baby. Who's going to take care of you when you're old? Not this guy! Kids come first, and if he doesn't like it he can scram. [/quote]

Thanks that was my inclination. But [b]I find his fussing especially lame because he has done the EXACT SAME THING (canceled our plans to see his kid, tagged along on my pre-planned vacation with my two, with his older teen kid and her friend that thoroughly degraded the trip, refused to take me to ER when I was injured because he had to drop a book off at her school, etc etc.) I have endless examples of him prioritizing his kids over me, even when I needed him urgently. [/b]So I’m kind of feeling a bit of gratification perhaps, but he is too dense to notice it… ugh men forever selfish…?

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I’m highlighting this post from the OP which is basically a laundry list of red flags. This is a guy who will refuse you a ride to the hospital because he prioritized a book for his kid. That it was his kid is irrelevant—you come after random errands. You mean nothing to him. Your well-being means nothing. If he’s such a great lay that you don’t care, keep him as a FWB. Right now you’re embarrassing yourself.

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