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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think putting the 2 dogs in separate bedrooms would work.  Just tell the cousin that you have guests who do not like (allergic to?) dogs. [/quote]

And then when the cousin's dog trashes your bedroom, you can send him the bill. [/quote]

The dogs in separate bedrooms will NOT work.  My dog is the loveliest, most easy going dog imaginable.  But he would be quite unhappy being shut in a bedroom when he knows that there is a huge party with delicious food going on right outside the door.  A social dog will want to be with the people.  A food-driven dog will want to be with the food.  An anxious dog will be made more anxious by all of this.  An aggressive dog will be riled up by this.  A dog that is dog reactive (or dog attracted) will be made crazy knowing that there is another dog in the room next to it.  The only dog that would be okay with this shut up in the bedroom situation is one that is really old, deaf, and just wants to sleep all day.  Or maybe one that is really used to the notion of being shut up in a bedroom during parties.
I agree you need to tell the fiance that this is not going to work, and you're really hurt that he would make this decision without talking it through with you.  This is a major red flag...I see the future posts about how he told his mother she could stay with you for months without clearing it with you, signed the kids up for travel soccer assuming you'd drive them, adopted a high energy dog without your agreement....these are all real posts from this forum.[/quote]

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