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[quote=Anonymous][quote]    Anonymous wrote:You know, OP, parenting is really hard, and the thing that makes it work is for both parents to be on the same team. There are going to be many instances where you and your DH will have to make decisions together and you might not agree. What happens if he decides that the baby shouldn't be vaxxed? And what about deciding how to split holidays? Is he going to pull this shit every time, refusing to compromise?

Your husband needs to understand that you, him and your child are his primary family unit now and that to be a good father, he needs to do what is best for his FAMILY. You are telling him what is best for you and he is dismissing it. This does not bode well for the future. I urge you to find a way to nip this in the bud. If you need to book a session with a marriage counselor, then do it now rather than waiting for things to fall apart months or years down the road.

I totally agree with the first paragraph - but then you contradict all of the rational and sensible statements in the second. Did two different people write this? [/quote]

I wrote this. And I stand by it. I think that both parents should put their family first. Their NUCLEAR family, that is. And I think both parents should be willing to compromise. OP is willing to (by having ILs come stay in hotel). DH isn't willing to try. He needs to learn--fast. Professional help is probably the quickest way to learn these skills on an accelerated schedule. [/quote]

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