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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem with “give in and make her happy” is that she will not be happy if she married a contemptible pushover who gives in whenever she makes demands.

Have some backbone FFS.[/quote]

Yes, I'm sure that she'd be a lot happier with a guy who doesn't care about what she wants.

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Do you give your children everything they want, especially if they demand it with anger and tantrums?

No, and it’s not because you don’t care what they want and don’t want them to be happy.

If you give in to emotional blackmail, [i]neither[/i] you nor the kid will be happy. And the same applies to emotional or sexual blackmail from a wife.[/quote]

If you're treating your spouse the same way you treat your children, you're already in deep trouble.

Two [b]adults[/b] should care about helping each other get what they want, and respect each other's judgment enough not to second-guess. If it would cause a financial catastrophe, of course that's another matter. But if it's simply a matter that one spouse doesn't think it's "worth it" then it turns into a matter of respect. Your wife doesn't see things the same way you do, and that's okay. You don't need to see everything the same way. You just need to respect each other's POV.

And it's beyond creepy that some posters (or maybe one poster?) keep steering this into sexual references. But if that's the only way those posters will understand: yes, of course, both spouses should care about each other's happiness in bed -- and out of bed. It's just part of caring.[/quote]

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