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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I hated my mom as a teenager. I hated her because she was everything I don’t want to be: weak, unreliable, lonely, unable to assert herself, unable to fix all that was wrong in her life. She scared the shit out of me because she was so bad at life. I had disgust for her. I swung wildly between treating her with pity and treating her with loathing and derision. I knew I was hurting her and I did feel bad, but her weakness made me even more anxious, even more resentful. The fact that she let me treat her so poorly made me even more anxious, less secure, more worried, more likely to lash out archer. Your weakness is a TERRIBLE example for her and likely a huge source of her derision and disrespect. She has contempt for you because she needs a strong mom and you are not it. You scare her. Stand up for yourself!!!!! You both need you to be stronger. Don’t let her see you be treated this way! Please, please seek counseling.[/quote]
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