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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP

I agree with the advice to let it go.  That is my plan.

What I am now wondering is:

Was I wrong to be uncomfortable about it?

She was a bit miffed at me for being uncomfortable around it.  Is that fair?

Again, thanks everyone.[/quote]

I posted that women spend their whole lives trying to manage men's feelings while letting them down. Sounds like, instead of trying to figure out how SHE feels and understate nd why she did what she did, you're focused entirely on how you feel and what you want her to do to manage your feelings too. Do you get it yet? [/quote]

Lol women managing men’s feeling? Women don’t and never have cared about men’s feeling. If a man starts talking about feeling he gets shut down. I do not know where you are getting this stuff. Right now you are telling OP to forget about his feeling and concentrate on his girlfriends(ex) feeling. She is the one who went out with some random guy.

Let’s treat OP like he was a female. Hey OP trust your feels and that little voice telling you this is not right. [/quote]

Women manage men's feelings all day every day. And they're so fragile [b]they often snap and murder the whole family[/b] despite best efforts. [/quote]

IF a guy wrote something similar about women, you all would be screaming bloody murder.

Yes, women are amazing.  Yes, women are so much smarter and more mature than men.

All hail women.

Get real[/quote]

DP but if a man wrote that women murder men all the time for rejecting them people probably would object because it would be factually inaccurate.  Google "family annihilations" - this is a Y chromosome phenomenon.  Women might not be categorically better than men, but they're objectively less murderous.  Get real.[/quote]

Murder is the standard by which to judge all male and female behaviors?

Yes, women may be objectively less murderous, however, to hear my wife talk about the machinations in her friend group, one could argue they are objectively more treacherous, conniving.[/quote]

Murder is the actual comment you were objecting to.  And no, women are not objectively more treacherous and conniving, although it's entirely possible you are married to a sociopath.  [/quote]

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