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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Right now, I would focus on getting my act together to assume I will be living alone, as the primary caregiver and breadwinner. Because that is likely where you will end up. Maybe not next month, maybe not next year, but eventually. If you get your act together and he suddenly gets serious about sobriety, you should be no worse off. [/quote]

OP here. This is one area where I'm doing okay and am set up pretty well, among the rest of the chaos. The biggest issue would be that I switched to part-time a few months ago to stay home with our daughter, and am on his health insurance. We had similar incomes when I worked full time and I would be able to ramp back up, but I really like being home with her. Obviously that would not be an option if we separated. Hopefully he gets his act together. I want to believe in him but today I am completely exhausted by all the lying.[/quote]

You need to be real. He will likely get fired at some point. You need a full time job. [/quote]

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