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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, does Aunt Becky even know that you know what she did 20 years ago? If not, she may have changed and you just don’t know. I would have your husband pick up the phone and call her. Explain that he knows what she did many years ago and isn’t sure he wants his family around her if that’s how she still feels. Gives her an opportunity to apologize then. If she gets all defensive, then you don’t go. There was a really interesting article a while back about a black guy who spent a lot of time with a KKK member. The racist eventually rebuked his old beliefs but never would have done so without relationships and real dialogue. I’m not saying you should hang out with a KKK member but for me it was just a reminder that dialogue matters. [/quote] Still not a situation that children need to be set up to deal with, especially when their parents aren’t present. [/quote]
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