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[quote=Anonymous]Damn some people are judgmental in the comments. OP, I was molested repeatedly as a kid, I was the polite quiet kid, which made me the perfect victim. I can tell you this, your daughter wanted to be heard and supported, not defended in that moment. I wouldn't keep bringing this up, it'll reinforce that this incident is HUGE and reinforce the same or weirdness she might be dealing with. Let her be, and just make sure in your every day life that she feels safe with both of you and that she feels heard. As women, we have to learn what battles we can win and which ones we cannot. She was outnumbered, she made the right call leaving the situation. If your husband did confront them, do we really know if they wouldn't all have pulled Chads and accused your daughter of lying? How healthy will that interaction be for her? I think you all did the right thing in the moment. It was a new situation for everyone. I would not encourage you to keep talking about it, however, UNLESS she brings it up. [/quote]
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