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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - thank you for all of the responses. I don’t think my husband did anything wrong by going along with what dd wanted in the moment. He’s really torn up about it and feels conflicted that he didn’t say anything because he doesn’t want her to feel like the boys’ behavior was acceptable.

To clarify - dd was underwater and doing some sort of “trick” - flips or handstands - and surfaced and these boys had surrounded her.  Dh said he did not see the actual incident but he hadn’t liked how the boys were acting in the pool earlier - [b]roughhousing [/b]and there were a bunch of little kids in the pool. DD came over to him immediately after and they left shortly after that with her younger siblings (who dh had been watching closely while swimming). 
They told me on the way to dinner which was pretty much as soon as I next saw them, and we talked a bit then and then significantly more after dinner.
We will reiterate to DD that she did nothing wrong and that the boys’ behavior is not ok. And continue to talk about how it’s important to call out such behavior and stand up for herself (and others) if it ever happens again. [/quote]

Did your Dh say anything to the lifeguards/management about the dangerous roughhousing?   [/quote]

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