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[quote=Anonymous]OP, is she getting her own child ready for the beach and packing snacks for her own child?

Maybe next year instead of a group cooler just have individual snack coolers for your own family.  Don't make it a group thing.  You handle your own kids with sunblock and packing and snacks and groceries etc, and she can do whatever she wants.  Go as far as labeling your food in the fridge if you want so you can be like "Susan?  Did you drink my family's milk? If you need milk you need to buy your own, this milk is for my family, as clearly stated on the label".   On her nights to make dinner, announce many times that it's her night to make dinner.  Stop offering to get her stuff from the store like this year.  Ask her loudly at 5pm if she plans on making dinner for everyone like you and friend have done the past 2 nights, since it is her turn.   If she doesn't give a satisfactory answer, go out for dinner with just your friends family and if she tries to come, say "we are only going out because you refused to cook on your night to cook, so no, we'd rather do this on our own since we are all collectively irritated by you for not making dinner like you agreed to". [/quote]

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