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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just don't tell her when you'll be there, and don't involve her in the planning with your best friend. When /if she finds out you went without her and asks why say "We go to be on vacation and you create more work for us since you won't pitch in with meals, cleaning, laundry or taking care of the kids. You make it harder, not easier." [/quote] If you feel like it'll weigh on you until next year and you want to say something now, just tell her "Hey, you know these vacations aren't working out anymore so next year we're going to switch things up and do our own thing. It's not fun when you're there, but on your own phone and you don't pull your own weight with making meals, doing your own laundry or taking care of the kids. This just isn't working anymore so we've reached the end of this tradition." [/quote]
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