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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I fight way too much. We aren’t going to make it and we both know it so all compromise and cooperation has gone out the window. I know our fighting is hurting my kids, especially my 8 yr old son but I just can’t seem to just stop arguing or getting angry with DH in front of the kids. I’m feeling enormous shame just writing this. [/quote] You should feel shame. Take ownership and get control of yourself like an adult. It’s good that you recognize what’s going on and feel bad, but until you actually stop doing it all you are is more culpable than someone who doesn’t realize how harmful this is. The worst thing my father did was marry a spouse so overwhelmed by her own depression, anxiety and borderline/bipolar crap that the only thing in the world that mattered to her were her own emotions. It’s not fair. I sometimes hate her to this day and resent him for not protecting us better and just getting away. [/quote]
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